Han yuanyuan‘s classroom problems（How do we shape our behavior because of others?）

 Our lives are filled with influences from everyone we interact with. Whether it is our relatives, friends, colleagues or strangers, their behaviors, values and attitudes influence our choices and behavior patterns. To grow and become a more complete person, we must learn how to absorb positive influences from others and then adjust and improve our own behavior.

Finding and following role models is an effective strategy. We can choose as role models those who excel in areas we care about and observe their behavior, decision-making processes, and attitudes toward challenges. By imitating their behavior, we learn new skills, ways of thinking, and values that improve our behavior. But the key is that we can't just blindly imitate, but also learn to understand and absorb the principles and ways of thinking behind it.

Secondly, feedback from others is also key in shaping our behavior. Accepting feedback means having the courage to face our shortcomings and being willing to adjust based on that feedback. This feedback can come from suggestions from colleagues, criticism from leaders, or honest conversations among friends. Listening to feedback does not mean that we completely change ourselves, but that we find potential growth in looking at ourselves. However, it is crucial to maintain self-awareness and independent thinking while imitating and receiving feedback. We cannot lose our own judgment and values and change ourselves just to cater to others. On the contrary, we should make wise choices based on understanding other people's opinions and suggestions, combined with our own actual situation and goals.

Finally, ongoing practice and reflection is an ongoing process of shaping your own behavior. Only through continuous practice can we discover our own shortcomings and gradually improve them. At the same time, reflection is also key to helping us understand the reasons and motivations behind our actions. Through reflection, we can understand ourselves more clearly and adjust our behavior better.

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